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The green grass

September 25, 2009 Leave a comment Go to comments

You have always been taught.

Ever since you were a child,  everyone around has has been teaching you lots of stuff about lots of things.  Your parents, your teachers,  your friends …even strangers . Your parents have un-arguably taught you the most. From the most basic stuff to some really complex things.  Teachers, ofcourse, teach you everyday. Your friends taught you the stuff your parents didn’t, probably coz they knew that you are better off knowing it from your friends. :-) .

But, there are some things that no one has ever taught you. You figure them out yourself.

You buy a new pair of shoes. His are better. You get a new bike. He gets a better one. You get good grades. He gets good grades and has more fun too. You do something. He does it better.
His parents are not as restrictive. He’s got better looks.  He is more popular. He never gets into trouble. Heck ! he even has a  girlfriend.

Your life is a nightmare. His is a sweet dream.

You have been a fool all this time. You never realized  the truth. The moment you start appreciating what you have,  it suddenly seems better than what he has. For all you know, he has been thinking the same way about you.The grass is always greener on the other side. No matter what you do, it always is. The only way you can make the grass on your side better is by accepting it the way it is.

You now have something he doesn’t… He is still troubled. His life is still a nightmare. You, on the other hand, are at peace with yourself  :-) .

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  1. September 25, 2009 at 4:39 PM | #1

    “pearls of wisdom” by Amod Jaltade :)
    Heheh…nice post !
    n also ..glad to know that now “you are at peace with yourself ” :D

  2. September 25, 2009 at 9:20 PM | #2

    Wow Amod!!

    You blew my mind. You are so right. God knows why we vehemently care what others have that we don’t. Grass is greener at our side too.
    Neatly written. Keep writing my dear friend!

    Care,
    Neer

  3. Aditya Jaltade
    September 26, 2009 at 1:02 AM | #3

    my ‘lil bro! ^_^

  4. September 26, 2009 at 5:31 PM | #4

    @Adi…ur ‘lil bro apparently is moving towards sainthood !! :D

  5. Amod
    September 26, 2009 at 5:59 PM | #5

    @Neer and bro : Thank u !

    @Aruna : Yeah right…you wish !

  6. umesh
    September 28, 2009 at 10:28 PM | #6

    :) :) grass is always greener on the other side… :) great post(s)…keep writing..

  7. Mahesh S.
    October 11, 2009 at 9:17 PM | #7

    @Aruna
    Saintwood is effect of :P :P Ahem! Ahem!!

  8. Mahesh S.
    October 21, 2009 at 10:30 PM | #8

    s/saintwood/sainthood!

    Damn WordPress doesnt allow to delete comments :( or am I missing something?

  9. Sachin
    November 12, 2009 at 12:23 AM | #9

    @Aruna :: “Saintwood is effect of Ahem! Ahem!!”
    what does it mean ?

  10. August 3, 2010 at 8:55 PM | #10

    I always believe people complicate life and its lessons.

    I believe the actual message is
    “The grass is always greener.” PERIOD.
    Some popular depressed pessimist (philosopher) must have added … “on the other side” later.

    It could also be read as “The grass is always greener, for those who are hungry enough”.

    Heh I should start tagging people to complete this line… (& put it on a post too)
    “The grass is always greener….”

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